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As long as you are happy with yourself and your actions and your motives then I don't believe you should compromise for someone else. However two people are rarely the same, so to form a relationship there has to be give. To me that has to be done by oneself in the form of acceptance.  Acceptance is my choice and under my control and does not require something from the other person, compromise requires others to fit in with my needs. I believe acceptance has more longevity and I believe you will start meeting different people. People who better match who you are with acceptance rather than compromise.\n\n7, Life is a reflection. I think i've read this else where but I discovered it myself. Life throws back at you exactly what you throw at it. If you see anger you will find angry people, you will notice angry things and you will propagate anger.  If you feel love you will notice love, you will receive love and you will propagate it. 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During my low periods in my life I initially saw this \n                             part of the brain as a great evil that needed to be ignored, I've since learnt that it just needs to be in harmony \n                             with your creative brain ( not easy to do but it is easy to know how to train it better ) and that it is essential to a \n                            healthy mind and can not be ignored. The plus side to this part of the brain is that it takes much less emotional \n                            energy to operate. If you can harmonise this part of your brain with your creative side then you day to day life \n                           gets much easier. This part of the brain controls 90% of your day to day choices and reactions, some people its \n                           more like 100%. Thats fine if it has a harmonised balanced mapping but thats not usually the case.\n                      \n                           The two parts of this half are emotions and habits. \n                          Emotions are a very tricky animal and the older you are the harder it is to reshape them, almost impossible in my \n                          mind, especially childhood stuff.  We all have hang  ups, so do I, I've learnt techniques to deal with them but I \n                          have never managed to eradicate them. \n                         Habits however can be changed or new ones created to override old ones. This is the best way to deal with tricky \n                          long term emotional triggers.\n\n                       The first habit i try to get everyone to learn is to count to 3.............. The very act of slowing down thought helps you \n                        access the creative side of the brain.\n\n\nSo thats how i see the brain is split up, I would love to hear others experiences of their brains and how you see them.\n\n\n\nDiscuss=How to train your brain.\n\nThe objective is to harmonise the two sides of the brain. So the auto stupid fast emotional habitual brain makes the same choices as the slow creative brain would if that were strong enough to make the choices.\n\nIt works exactly the same as going to the gym.\nLets say you want to be able to do 100 press ups. There is no quick fix, the only power you have today is to decide to go to the gym. You can not decide to do 100 press ups anymore than you can decide to be happy, or eat better or get over someone. You can only decide that you want to, and understand that you must train to do this.\n\nand lets say that you don't go to the gym, then you are actually training not to be able to do 100 press ups ( there is no static point )\n\nAnyway we've established the objective ( 100 press ups ) we know we need to train so we start training. \n\nAt first it is very hard to do and we can only manage a couple sets of five. It hurts like hell and you don't feel any stronger.  You feel like its not achievable and that its pointless. The brain does not like change, even if youre doing a unhealthy thing or in an unhealthy relationship, your brain will still find it hard to change. Hence Stockholm syndrome and all that jazz.  All you have the power to do at this point is to decide to go again or not.\n\nStill very hard, You have to look for motivation, you have to talk yourself into it, you have to try to overcome the brains desire not to change. if you make it again then you are one step closer to developing a new habit. Good positive habits are great to get as they take over eventually and you can just let the auto brain run them which is not hard at all.\n\nAnyway after several months of training you have developed a new habit and you can do 100 press ups.\n\nThe important thing here is to understand that now you can not chose to, not be able to do 100 press ups. So if tomorrow you decide it was all a big mistake, guess what!? you can still do 100 press ups. The only choice you have is to decide not to train any more. You will need to overwrite that habit with a new one. Over time you will lose the ability to do 100 press ups and you will learn a new habit of not going to the gym.\n\nThe point here is that understanding how to remap your own brain is essential in being able to do it. Understanding what parts can be overwritten and what parts can't are essential. You are never going to feel good about your father leaving you as an infant but you can learn to love yourself for who you are and want your father to be happy and understand that it would not do either of you any good to be forced together. You can understand that it is better for you both to be happy than not. It was also the cause of some of my best traits ( also worst ) confusing :D\n\nOther tools you need\n\nUnderstand your triggers and how they work.\n\nSome triggers start small and grow, some start big and shrink some fluctuate.\n\nsmall to big example- You agree to do something for someone because you are a pleaser but you don't really want to or they are taking advantage of you. This can start with a doubt or voice in your head saying \"dont do it\" and as time goes on and the event gets closer the anxiety grows and grows until the event passes.\n\nBig to small- You have a fall out with someone and you feel terrible about some aspect of it which fades over time. \n\nfluctuations- hormones or work patterns ie Monday blues.\n\nYou need to find your triggers to your emotions so you can work out strategies to deal with them. It also helps you avoid doubling up on triggers ie a night out before work on monday when your on your period (Women) or when you know you have a challenging meeting with the boss on monday. ( very easy to predict where that is going to end up if you are not in the best time of your life right now. 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Its one of those \n                         triggers that i will never shift, however it has its good side.)\n                                            = Count to three, Dont over commit, count to 3 before replying to a request, don't make promises, don't \n                                                pin myself to timings, learn to rationalise it to see if i am really letting anyone down, learn to dismiss \n                                               guilty feelings, don't agree to things i dont want to do, be more assertive, reduce my commitments.\n\nTrigger three, Taking on other peoples emotions \n                                           =Count to three,  Learn that i am not responsible for other peoples happiness, Learn that i can only do \n                                            what i can do so i must understand my limitations. 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