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Although she had previously attempted to sell cooked food and AKARA (Bean cake) before her man died, she wasn't completely motivated to do that since she had \"Backup\" from her man (My Young Dad). \n\nAs I grew older, somehow I felt within me - If only my mum had taken things seriously, maybe my Hardworking dad would not have travelled that Sunday in a bid to get back home and deliver a bag of Garri that we needed in the house to make Eba... (Feeling emotional right now\n\n\n<Center>![WhatsApp Image 2025-05-14 at 6.43.43 PM (1).jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmUB37MQc4BSPBzCFb47ebpQQEXi2ohSs6DyUTivGWnaRs/WhatsApp%20Image%202025-05-14%20at%206.43.43%20PM%20(1).jpeg)\n).</Center>\n\nThe incidence of my Dad's passing got to us so badly that we all managed to scrap SSS3 - and by this I mean, we all managed to finish secondary school. My three eldest sisters could not further their education, and today, they can barely compete with anyone around them. \n\nI was a bit fortunate because I passed my WASSCE and NECO and also had a Good Samaritan in the form of a Redeem Church Pastor who shouldered my school fees for 4 years in the University.\n\nIn a Family of 5 children, I was the only one who had the chance of attending the University, save my Kid brother who, through hell-like troubles after 10 years of my graduation, attempted and finished the University too.\n\n\n<b><h2>Present Day Realities For Me</h2></b>\n\nMy post-NYSC experience wasn't a palatable one as I struggled for 6 years searching for Jobs to no avail. In these trying times, I was meticulous enough to learn some Soft-Tech skills like Digital Marketing, graphics and Video Editing and content writing. These skills eventually paved the way as my first job after countless banking job rejections, paid and also treated me well.\n\nAlthough I had been married two years before I got my first high-paying ed-tech Job in Ikoyi, Lagos, the new job helped to brighten my day, and suddenly began to help erode my past pains and anger (Especially at my Mom).\n\n\n<b><h2>My Experience, My Marriage and Why I Chose No Deal</h2></b>\n\nI have now been married for 6 years+, and in these six years, I have shouldered 95% of the entire financial burden of my home. School fees, food, clothing, medical bills—every single cost has come from my pocket, and I know you are starting to think - Isn't this the same experience your dad had before his demise? - Exactly, but in my case, it is a little polished as my wife isn't as uneducated as my mum. My Wife holds a B.Ed and M.Ed degrees from the University of Ibadan, and from the department of Guidance and Counselling, but despite these degrees, she has not been able to contribute substantially financially. Not because she is lazy or unwilling, but because life threw her into a world she wasn’t prepared for—one where her degrees didn’t translate into a career, and her non-tech background made opportunities scarce.\n\nAlthough I now own an ed-Tech startup (<a href=\"https://digitalsuccessplace.com/\">Digital marketing training institute</a>) and also handle some side gigs, which translate to some sums every month, I cannot deny the fact that I have grown so tired in recent times..... Sometimes, I feel my eyes popping out due to poor sleeping patterns and long working, learning and unlearning hours.\n\n\n<h2><b>What The Society Teaches</b></h2>\n\nThe society also doesn't seem to help men live healthy and long lives, as it still holds the belief that a “real man” must bear the financial weight of the home, no matter the cost. This same belief killed my Innocent Dad and has left many men emotionally drained, physically worn out, and mentally broken (As I think I am beginning to feel right now). The present-day Nigerian also isn’t forgiving.  The cost of commodities and other necessities is so high that sometimes I feel so empty when I send the usual amount for food, as I have always done before. \n\nJust like me, I am so sure many husbands suffer in silence, trying to live up to this idea of masculinity. Meanwhile, women, capable, educated, and strong, are sometimes sidelined, either by societal expectations or by circumstances that prevent them from earning to assist the men.\n\n\n<h2><b>The Outcome Of My Trouble and The Options I Was Faced With</b></h2>\n\nThe truth is that, at some point, out of frustration, I quarrelled indoors with my wife and, on a few occasions had switched off my lines for two days without reaching her. I didn't want to die early like my dad, I was so scared of dying of a heart attack or stress.\n\nWould I continue like this?\n\nAnyways, I had two options:\n\n<li>I continue alone, pretending I am a superhero until I collapse under the pressure.</li>\n<li> We both acknowledge reality—that in today’s world, running a home should be a partnership, not a one-man battle.</li>\n\nMy Friend will exlaim - <b>OMO!</b>  whenever he is tired of a thing....(Smile)\n\nOMO, I chose the Second option - I called my wife to a meeting to talk about the present-day realities and to remind her of the story I had told her about my Dad before we got married.\n\n\n<h2><b>The Outcome Of The Meeting</b></h2>\n\nMy choice of having a heart-to-heart talk with my wife changed everything.  \n\n<li> First, we both agreed she needn't job-hunt anymore, instead, we could reach out to her brother, who had connections with a biscuit factory (As a wholesaler), if he could help her get into biscuit distribution too.</li>\n\n<li> I provided the first capital of <b>#200,000</b> (The only profit I made from a WordPress website design gig). 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My three eldest sisters could not further their education, and today, they can barely compete with anyone around them. \n\nI was a bit fortunate because I passed my WASSCE and NECO and also had a Good Samaritan in the form of a Redeem Church Pastor who shouldered my school fees for 4 years in the University.\n\nIn a Family of 5 children, I was the only one who had the chance of attending the University, save my Kid brother who, through hell-like troubles after 10 years of my graduation, attempted and finished the University too.\n\n\n<b><h2>Present Day Realities For Me</h2></b>\n\nMy post-NYSC experience wasn't a palatable one as I struggled for 6 years searching for Jobs to no avail. In these trying times, I was meticulous enough to learn some Soft-Tech skills like Digital Marketing, graphics and Video Editing and content writing. 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      "body": "@b-naj.... if you ever decided to come to visit Lagos, I will be more than willing to host and take you around...\n\n\nYeah..... There are areas that are also very unclean like the Lagos mainland, but trust me when I say the government is working round the clock to ensure those areas are kept clean....\n\nThanks for leaving me a comment.... I do really appreciate it.",
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