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This involved, not only promoting things she wanted me to be, but also cutting out the things that were “unacceptable” to her. The problem I found, besides that it seemed I was the only one trying to make changes, was that as hard as I tried to be everything that she wanted, I could never completely fulfill the expectation. Slowly over time, I found myself losing my sense of identity, until eventually, I was just a zombie. I felt like a chess piece in a game that was my wife’s well planned out version of what life was supposed to be like.</p>\n<p>During my postmortem, I started to wonder if maybe changing myself wasn’t the best idea. Maybe, the key wasn’t to try and be the best person that my wife or I could construct, but maybe it was to try and be the best version of myself, and to eventually find someone who could accept the full me. This led me to looking into personality types, and personality tests online. I took several of the tests, and gained many insights by doing this. 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I like to write, play music, work with my hands… She didn’t see these things as useful, (except for occasionally working with my hands) or viable to what she considered to be respectable and realistic career options. She also didn’t see how it would benefit her, or our family, so she became very hostile toward any project or casual hobby I started that involved these things.</p>\n<p><strong>What About the Bad Traits?</strong></p>\n<p>It was easy to convince myself that it was a good idea to embrace my good personality traits, but what about the bad ones? Should I accept myself fully? The good and the bad? One example of this dilemma was that I felt like I was a bit too much of a pushover. I mean I obviously let my ex walk all over me, and I let her change me, right?</p>\n<p>Well, as I delved deeper into my study of personalities, I discovered that it was pretty well accepted that personalities don’t change. In other words, I tested as an ENFJ (under the Myers Briggs Assessment), and according to experts, at my core, I would always be an ENFJ. This got me to thinking, if it’s true that no one can change their personality type, then maybe the traits that go with those personalities aren’t inherently bad?</p>\n<p>I started to look deeper at my “bad traits”, and I started to look at what my motivations were for acting the way I did. I started to ask myself the hard questions. Such as, <em>what was my motivation for being a pushover?</em></p>\n<p>I started to realize that I didn’t give in to my ex’s demands, because I was weak or afraid, or even a pushover. I did it because I personally put a tremendous value on having harmonious relationships in my life. I put value on selflessness and giving as much as I can to make my relationships work, because I also greatly value commitment and loyalty. 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Well I definitely didn’t want to make the same mistake again, or wait for a 3rd attempt, but I did see myself, most likely getting married again in the future.</p>\n<p>I started to consider why 2nd marriages might fail more often than 1st or even 3rd marriages. I started to think about my remarried friends and family members, and I realized that many of them had ended up marrying someone very similar to their ex. I’m not saying this is the reason that most 2nd marriages fail, but this was my own personal observation.</p>\n<p>When I was younger, in high school and college, I tended to date a lot of different types of girls. My friends would often comment, that they could never guess who I might bring with me to a school dance, or out on a date, because they couldn’t tell that I had a particular “type” that they could pin down. I kind of prided myself in this, and I thought to myself that I could get along with any personality type, so I never really pinned myself down to having one specific type or preference with the girls I would date.</p>\n<p>When my ex and I had gotten engaged, I knew that she and I had very different personalities, and even my friends could tell, to the point that a couple of my friends practically warned me against moving forward with the relationship. I shrugged it off, and went ahead with it. I was confident that we could make it work despite our differences.</p>\n<p>After going through what I did, and learning the things I had been looking into, I decided that maybe being a little pickier might not be a bad idea. As I explored the different personality types, I forced myself to choose traits that I liked better than others, and I categorized them (in my head) according to importance. For example; I didn’t want to be so picky that I wouldn’t date a girl if she didn’t get all my pop-culture references, but I did want someone who generally had a good sense of humor.</p>\n<p>As I pieced these things together and looked back on previous relationships, I realized that maybe I had, had a type all along. After analyzing the girls I had dated in previous times, I found that the ones of whom I was more infatuated than others, typically had more of the traits I just discovered that I preferred. &nbsp;</p>\n<p><strong>Compatibility</strong></p>\n<p>Through my research, I discovered something else that seems very simple, but can be complicated when you get involved with someone. That is, that compatibility can have a profound effect on how well a relationship works. Don’t get me wrong, I think that 2 very different people that are committed to each other, are able to make compromises, and communicate clearly, can make it work, but I think by and large, that 2 people that are highly compatible, will have a much easier time making it work, because the way to make it work will come much more naturally. There is less to figure out, if you have compatibility. Being with someone who isn’t compatible, is like trying to learn a new language, but in some ways even harder, because when dealing with personalities, the language the other person speaks may never make sense to you conceptually. &nbsp;</p>\n<p><strong>Moving Forward</strong></p>\n<p>The things I have addressed thus far may not be helpful to everyone, but they were very important and helpful in my own personal journey. I found that post-divorce, I was actually able to be a lot more decisive and confident than I had been even before the divorce. 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